Being a physician puts you in situations where you have to make decisions. The first rule in making medical decisions, per the
Hippocratic Oath, is do no harm. I think the second rule is to use your education, training, and experience to come to the best solution. The problem is that in medicine there are lots of gray areas and the best solution often isn't known. I'm pretty laid back in general and usually give my patients a few options and let them pick the one they prefer as long as I don't think it will be harmful. This allows the patient to be an active participant in their own health and takes some of the blame off me if things don't work as well as we had hoped.
I bring all of this up because last week I had to make a decision that didn't go over well with the patient's parents. I can't give much details due to
HIPAA regulations. It had to due with a teenage girl and a potential overdose situation and the parents called requesting a refill of the same medication and I told them no. Obviously there are a lot of behind the scenes stuff going on that I can't mention but they thought she couldn't function without the medicine and were upset that I wouldn't refill it and yelled on the phone, etc. But I said no and didn't let them talk me out of it. I think this pretty clearly falls under rule one - do no harm.
This is just an example of some of the decisions that have to be made and things that go on on a day to day basis. Medicine itself is difficult, but when you throw in all of the other aspects that get involved, i.e. social needs, financial needs, insurance policies, and on and on, it makes for a rather challenging field at times. Suffice it to say I was a bit stressed at the end of the day after talking to the parents on the phone, wondering if I made the right decision.